Dead Spirit to Good Spirit!!

Today i chatted with one of my good friend and i felt very bad, I realized its bad to have dead spirit in life , I have seen my dad when he lost all assets in business , he stopped work and became very much under confident and tension has killed him!! I know he has taken some wrong decision against my mom advice and us  , but it was not his fault , it was all about his destiny and one day i asked god "what should i do?" To make his spirit high ,What he wants i can not do and is there any alternative way?It was big deadlock situation , Either i have to adjust or kill myself or either he has to bear it...then something click on mind and i did something which made him little bit high spirit.

I can say, there is nothing which is not possible but everything is again not possible.My dad was real  gentleman he knew she wont do it so he has accepted what i did and start living it with good spirit.I know Hope always in his mind and heart but he is more practical then us.he never bother me and gave me full freedom to move on.

We have a very beautiful life and i believe god has done one mistake to create us and on other hand it is the best gift we have this life.Life is nothing it's just a coin and like a coin we have head and tail.

Both head and tail wont decide who is the winner , its our choice or selection which decides the winner!!

Failure is just a phase and success is just an opportunity.We have to decide how to grab it.I know its very much easy to say and hard to live.But believe me its my personal experience , I have gone thru this phase.More than success i have seen many failures.I am the gal who born with tears and now i am the gal who always believe gimme sadness and i will return happiness and my life is beautiful.

I am normal gal , Not supernova kinda, But i have learn t one thing its all our attitude to accept failure and feel success, i have seen many examples in my life who has everything but don't enjoy anything.I have something and enjoying everything....I know it sounds like i am boosting.but I am proud of it.

I believe  in astrology, I know its all about our destiny and no one can change it.But what i believe we are the person who can control its effect either it would be good or bad.

My friend is going thru very bad phase because of his professional career and somehow it is impacting his personal life and others life too.His life failure and down spirit are killing him daily but the question is "what he can do?"

I know bookish lectures  wont solve his problem...in fact no one can change his destiny...he doesn't have time to listen us, he is not happy to accept all our advice.

I know some stupid ways may be it would work out...but again everything in his hands only.

All i can say -"karam kar Phal paane ki ichaa na kar...." Life is beautiful and everyone has this phase... Enjoy it and never die your spirit of life, If something forcing you to go down just give simple pray and ask your soul "Are you ready?" Definitely answer would be yes !!  

Push all your problems and just stand up and open your arms and hug all happiness and say " thank you god, Life is river i wanna flow !! Good and Bad is just number games let me drive it....."

It would work believe me my friends...

Part 2: 6 Din ladka/Ladki in

Last time i have shared one of my male friend experience which was quite funny. somehow i realised Sometimes love gives you smile and beautiful feelings for whole life and some times tears for whole life...but one who is in love can only understand its real pain and beauty....

Few days back i met my very good friend , she is very much independent and practical gal and somehow she is very much reserved too to share her feelings, but pretend to be very much open minded...We are the best buddies and have great chemistry , we understand each other and share everything of our life

After long time , we planned to meet  and i was shocked..on that day...how come it possible with her? Its mistake?...No no...its true..My friend  truly in love with someone and even she is not realising that.....how much she is serious

For me Love is like spontaneous activity it happens, its move on...Its daily life activity.We do love and hate.As per my understanding when two person are in love it means they are habitual of each other and have good telly pathy...
Mental and Physical frequency match with each other...Somehow i believe its very hyper activity of your life which kill you ;)...

But she has given me something different feelings and when i asked her she gave me definition of love and as usual i got confuse because i don't prefer to love in my life and somehow i don't believe in stupid things...

She met a person in London and spend some official 7-8 days with him......I don't know what MBA guys do...bakar bakar...all bakwas....She said when i met him i had very neutral feeling and when i left London i don't realised i am in truly madly in love with him and even she doesn't know he loves her or not....

She said i tried Dilwale Dulhaniya wala funda,On last day i am in doubt and i asked god -if he really loves me ..he will turn.... ;)

I asked..."kya voh paltaaa??"(He turned?) She said -"YES" its big yes and her eyes are shining like stars and smile like blossom flower...and big hope in her heart and mind....

Maine socha i am not only filmi gal in this world , there few more still belive in yash raj film and obey him...by true heart...
I asked how its happened? Howz the guys ? HOt ;) Rich ;) macho man ;) intelligent ???...She simply say it doesn't matter !! Only Matter I love him and i wanna meet him once again(again Yash
  raj Film common dialog)

I laughed at her , after 30 yrs of your life u realising this stupid thing? Then she said...Love has no age ...its happen at any age anytime and anywhr....(Again and this time my ears were bleeding....)

I know its true....I remember when i was in class 2 , I was in love with my school teacher and in 11th i was in love with Rahul Dravid and still i think how come i remember these moments?

Its very much funny, she is in Bombay now and banda is in US somewhr and he doesn't know how much she likes him and love him....I know its one time attraction but what happened if she is really in love??
I think she must propose him...but i knw her she is quite reserved personality ..she wont do it....As per Asian galz Boy should propose which literally fuck my mind....i don't believe in this funda...

I gave her some of my filmi tips like -Add him FB first, ask for chat gtalk , chat etc etc..all chalbaaj steps to get Ladka IN ;)...

As per her Superb thoughts, If you really love someone , you have to wait and watch !! if your luck and Love together you would definately a winner....

Then i said ---GEETA says  one shalaok-"karam kar ..phaal paaney ki ichaa na kar"..I adviced her...Test yourself first and try to find person and then throw Mauka parr chauka...its doesn't matter who is proposing its matter both like each other and its matter you both have good luck to have true love in your lives....


The change i have noticed some common in her...which usually people do in love phase...

1. Always in smiling mode....and think and miss all the moments that she had spend with him...
2. Always Visit his FB account and notice all the new updates
3. Always in active mode in gtalk to chat with him
4. Listening only Love songs and sit quite....no interest in shopping(its big shock for me)
5. Start loving all Red , pink colors and somehow no tomboy and looks...
6. IT magazine replaces femina and beauty etc etc....
7. face is glowing and no presence of mind....


hell....But its nice one...she is in mode of Love....but I always do fun to observe such kinda of examples in my life....but i scared too , Love in beginning is very beautiful but if it doesn't succeed then it gives pain for whole life and very few will accept it!!

All i can say , Its very dangerous to have one sided love..Either do it or Die....don't move in to and fro motion...

Part 1: 6 din...ladka / Ladki in ;)

Today i was discussing with my friend about our college days and we came to the point..one thing hasn't changed yet....Proposal..still a man or woman (gal or boy)  spend lot of time to decide how to propose her/him...and still all basic funda are same :)

Love is blind and don't care...

My friend has shared some mast wala view with me:Don't mind my words...its direct from my frd heart and mind ;)

I asked him what kinda of gal u prefer??

As per his comments - "Still man thinks below the belt...a gal shud have good cooking skills for kitchen and bed both...for first one experience matter but for second knowledge matter...;)

i said -"How cheap you guys are?" still have the same mentality and virginity etc etc....he said yaar we cannot control our thoughts ....we are Asian man..its hard to change it....
i realised i should stop asking more details...otherwise i will start abusing them again...and i know they cannot be change....

Then i asked him how to propose the gal...

1. first Step: Search Gal in face book ,send Frd request...as per my friend...gal are very super bitch kinda...they wont accept the request easily...she takes at least 2 weeks to decide..i add him . i reject him i add him i reject him(100 times she thinks)....tab takk banda usey apni bahen bana le and kahe-" jaa marr bahen chod".. wait wait...we cannot do it....still man has some patience..kuch paane  liye kuch khona pdta hai...

2. Second step: Deeply analyse her pics....jasie X-ray karna ho....and will give some good sense of humour complements...gals always mad for it...and always check mutual frds...best for advice...Bhabhi banegi ya humari pahele se he bhabhi hai ;)- successs aret not always true
(we all do the same kinda comments...jasie all having some common account and book -"how to give complete to a gal")

3. If gal likes you....she def say thanks and welcome..and that means she is on the way to coffee house...
Now we have to decide...Straight road leni hai without red light or u turn hain...
If gal is working  then we always start discussion with official tasks and then mauka milte he Chauka..." can we go for a coffee?"

if gal is student direct ask for drop and pickup(cab diver),which she always prefer

if gal frank-" Let me check..will text you..(she is welli full week, but pretend she is more busy then Obama") One day she text you ok, meet me on dat day...sharp XX(yeah sharp..humare liye waiting time hota hai)
If Gal Shy-" hmmm phir kabhi...(she is taking time and showing bhaav, but still have Umeed ki kiran)
if gal normal-" lets plan smewhr..else...(she judge you first in 4-5 meetings and then decide)

saali koi ekdum se haan nahin karegi...aur jana sabko hoga...

4. Now tough time start- U must have good balance in phone, Full patrol, and lot of Deo's and roj nahana and ache banana padega...." gals always say...Money doesn't matter...looks doesn't matter...bt its matter and 100/100 aana chahaiye....

5. After spending 10-15K in patrol and telephone bills...one day you are lucky(actually most unluckiest days) have to decide....now on her B'day(saala yeh b'day...humara dead day hota hai)
i will propose her....wasie best frd ka b'day we dont remember because everyday we live with him....saala roh uske sath baith kar daru pita hai...us kya spacial ho gaya?? kya ....chod diya??...but jis din bandi ka b'day hoga-" we wait for 12 o clck and play guitar for her-" wahi stupid song-" aaj kal famous hai....na paani da rang...kinda....gals apni voice main- thanku thanku so much...kal party main aana...sharp at 7"

6. banda jata hai best brand ka shoes and Deo and clothes pahen kar....special do baar naha kar....(Coffee final he hogi).....Just enter the bar/pub/restaurant...hello...hug you....happy b'day to you...

bandi-" thanks buddy...aao tumko milwaati hun......he is my frd..hmmm frd nahin kahungi he is my life , soul ...babu teddy bear...and i getting marry on XX/XX/XXXX day...

and uske bad 6 din...Gun in....its fire....


Ha ha ha....But is not true always..akhir jiske sath kasam khayi hai barbad karne ki..usko bhi toh haan kaha hoga...will share that case in next blog

Why Chadha is very much Popular

History Of Chadha:

Indian (Panjab): Hindu (Khatri) and Sikh name based on the name of a clan in the Khatri community. Ramgarhia Sikhs also have a clan called Chadha.

But Mostly Chadha's famous as Lahori's , origin from Pakistan Panjab!!

Well its very respectable introduction of Chadha's.

Chadha's , surname is very much dynamic which always impress and attract Film/Tv producer director and script writer to include them in their movie...Just think Agar Chadha surname vicky Donar nahin hota, Movie ka hit hona not possible...Just imagine Chadha doctor replaces.....Gupta, kumar etc etc....

Vicky donor is not Just an example,there are many more movie which are super duper hit because of Chadha.

Everyone can make fun of using surname, But no one understand...only Chadha/i can protect your izzat.....!!

All Chadha's are good in health and wealth and always says- when our base was in Pakistan we had gold bricks , big bungalow and high position.....(Jitna lambi phenk sakte the...we do it.. who is going there to enquire about background lol ;) , well is general panjabi's nature all have same story)

but now a days we are in good in health and wealth has gone with partition...:((

We are trying to set our big name in bollywood....very soon we will earn our name HOLLYWOOD too., just imagine.....and hope in next 50 yrs we would setup new Wood which is called "CHADHAWOOD"

which is combination of masala and tadka.....

few lines....in my mind...about Chadha

East or  west...Chadha is the best....

kabhi khaaye Sunny paa ji da Dhai kilo da haath...

Kabhi lagaaye..nikamey munde nu..sahi kaam de saath....

baterey aaye baterey gaye....Chadhey humehsa humesha mukummaalal jahaan main baney rahe....

Hum hai respected chadha, jab kare koi humare liye gadha...kar usi ka hisab wahin....dhakka dekar chutta...

Deadloack mind

Mind is very complicated matrix, It always behaves like calculations and sometimes we wont resolve our problem and we lock in deadlock situation and not able to answer our queries.I have spent wonderful days in trek and got good change and memories book.

But from last night my mind is in deadlock situation, I am not able to answer myself.I am not able to decide or take final step.I am trying my level best to cope the problem ...but still something pulling me back and saying wait and watch....

Mind is moving in to fro position ...yes..it's real....no Its false its fake..Its one time...I don't know what would happened...at this situation i think we always miss the god and pray ohh god pls help me and do fast whatever you want...pass this time asap...

Sometimes too gud happening in your life will rise the problem ..which is happening with me...I always take life as time being ..sometimes its hard move some times its soft move...

I know it's complicated to understand and i can only resolve it....

This is call deadlock, because i cannot solve my mind matrix problem!! I know after some time when I'll look back and remind my problem..i would definitely laugh!! Its very common...You always laugh at your problems but not for pain...

Pain and Problem has one layer difference....Pain always remind your struggle and Problem always remind your immaturity !!

will write in detail next time.....

The Trek: Roopkund

After 3 days trek completion i am writing and collecting memories of roopkund trek.I was desperately waiting for this break, After dad i was very much low and loosing my inner happiness and inner confidence...But this trek has build me again and now coming back to normal state again....

I was excited for this tip and did my bagpack 1 week back and just waiting for tickets to be confirmed,,,,on 23 June 2012 its 6:30 PM,

Alpa :" hey poo just chk the status ....? Otherwise i wud call leave now"
Poorva -" Tu abhi chali...jaa(better you go now), U are already making so noise pollution....
I stared at her...poorva ok Ok let me chk...

Poorva "hey ur tickets are confirmed" .....This was the awesome time for me...i just looked at her and gave big hi fi and call my frd...and asked him to join the journey from Delhi...

I met group of Gujrati's in metro and shared the little introduction which was enough for them...because more than knowing personal things we all were interested to just reach the station ASAP as we were already late.....
Trip has some interested moments:

Part 1 : First time i had grp of Gujrati's, they are spl kinda creatures...what i feel Gujrati's always prefer to have same community..and have almost same set of mind.....These guys are great and very much funny ,i did lot of fun, crack non sense jokes and we were behaving we are all frds....

These guys are careless...weired and somehow take it easy...Not true frds but they have nice company , everyone can enjoy them...specially the way they speak gujrati in very much rude and funny way and as per delhi...Village style....
I used to share bad and dirty(potty) kinda jokes with them..and irritate them so badly....and i love it

Part2: Vango boys, Wow these guys are decent ,shy and innocent..i know No boys is innocent ....but while talking with them they used to shy and think...." Punjabi ladki kya bol gayi...very fast"
They are caring and adjusting , in starting i was in picture south Indian boys are very introvert....but i was wrong..unlike North Indian they takes time to open....but the best part they enjoyed the trip in pleasant way...


Part 3: Seniors Grp: I love them all, Spl one of the fastest runner...he is so dynamic and smart!!.another guys are oldies but still young and performing better than us...
I would like to go with them again...I have spent last two days with them...which was the awesome...somehow i realised i like mature company

I met some individual personality of Different groups hari and Suhasini who are really too good ...Suhasini is more adjustable then any other gal and hari is...real gentle man...

I had shared great memories , whcih i cananot share whole in this blog....

There are few tips for every trek, I am listing down all...

1. Don't make your single group, go and mix up with all...Don't depend on others..take life as full challenge and ready to face and solve your problems..in the worst condition ask others to help...

2. Do lot of exercise and maintain stamina...Don't be super dude...simple running and healthy diet is enough.

3. Must have good PR skills which is very much require in this trip....Don;t be rude and don;t be very much flexible....

4. please be with team..Don't try to be super woman/Man..Team work is very much important

Rest items and health care should follow ur trekkers instructions...