"Marriages are made in heaven which we solemnize on earth"....very
well said...
In
Punjabi we say "Paaji sanjog vadde daade honde
haannn...koi na rok sakyaa do milan walaayan nu"
Today i
am sharing hilarious experience of my cab mate.She is punjabi and got married
with south Indian boy and i wonder how they managed both culture in such a
beautiful way.Both of them are east and west but end of the day i can say
" Love is really
blind and true love can make impossible to possible ".
I know
you guys heard only experience of Punjabi boy and south Indian gal .If gal is
south Indian and boys is Punjabi somehow it manage. But here case is opposite
and more complicated .Gal is Punjabi from Delhi and boy is Madrasi from
chennai...i know i know he is tamil....as we consider all south indian as
madrasi only ;)
South
Indian are very much conservative as compare to our Delhi waale Punjabi. They
are very well educated and sophisticated...But we delhiites are unexpected and
in show off and boldness we can win GOLD Olympic medal.
Arvind is
the name of my friend's husband. As usual in Indian culture boy's family always
dominate and make their priority higher. His family decided first they would
celebrate the marriage in south Indian style in Chennai with all south Indian
traditional , It was two days ceremony , My freind Priyanka was feeling like
she is in gold and silk whole market. All woman wore Silk Kanjivaram heavy
Saree with 10 Kg Gold...its doesn't matter gold is 30K per 10 gm or 50K ....Its
matter how much you cover your body with gold...Like bappi da....infact Bappi
da ko tension ho jaaye !!
My friend
is extremly extrovert , outspoken with very goodie goodie panjabi sense of
humour , but there she has to control her feelings and keep her lips and mind
sealed. But as u know our double character cannot hide for so long time....When
she arrived at stage for garland ceremony all his Punjabi brothers start
hooting..."Punjabiyan di ho gayi waah bhai waah and with glass of Soft
drink only...no rum / wisky because they dont wanna make the situation risky ;)
Famous
lines for our Punjabi's about the drink
Tere
layi peg te peg banwa denda,
Tere layi Royal Stag de tabb bharwa denda,
kambaqth tusi taan pende nahi,
nahi taan Tajmahal nu ve theka banwa denda :D
Rest thing hasn't changed as it always happen at panjabi stage ...
1. Every
male has 500 rupees note in between lips ;)
2. Long
check design hanky at their neck (oldies ) and young boys wear tadak bhadak
sherwaani....and long jutti like raja maharaja!!
3. Honey
Singh Punjabi beats in their mind and hips, no background music but they moves
their back like snake....Jaise ichadari nagin ne attack kar diya ho!!
4. All
grand mother , chachi massi....wear long neck with highly visible neck line
suits and sarees....., we prefer to maintain our transparency nature ;)))
5. Young
chicks are showing off body like katrina kaif sheela ki jawani....and Young
Bhai log always hunt for chikani chameli....but this time they were sad...No
chinkani Chameli for Line baazi....
All of
bhalla's , Chadha's Malhotra's were in control because it matter of " our
Kuddi" , but she knew they cannot control it for longer
duration....Suddenly one of cute sardan started the music in his IPhone( as you
know all punjabi's are extremly rich in gagdets and cars)....
The song
was " Tennu Ghoddi kiney chadayaaa bhutani ke" and every one
was stunned and thank god except arvind no one able to understand its meaning
and He has controlled the situation in smart way :)) .But Its really good
luck...and good Punjabi choice....We have damaad(Son in Law) like Arvind
Well now
the time for Punjabi style...." All is well and with some hell , But
really i love this hell experience"
My
friend's has to take phere in gurudawara, Its again in Indian timings at 12,
but 2hrs late is standard way to reach at destination....Ladki waale danced
like they were Ladkey waale and had big dance competition within family like
Dance in dance reality show. All were drunk and danced like Minthun da ,
Govinda da Chanky pandey....
In
Punjabi shaadi its doesn’t matter what is the lyrics of songs it matter only
music is running in high volume..."Saadi raail gaddi aayi...., bhootani
k....etc etc". As usual Punjabi shaadi don't take so much time in all
ceremony because rather than tradition we are more interested in dance, drinks
:) and photo shoots... Rinki pinki tinki all are wanted to look best , its doesn’t
matter of size its matter of type.....;).
Some of
south Indian relatives of Arvind were continuously dancing with confused and
fused mind thought ...."Dance is traditional and mandatory custom in
Punjabi's ". One of them said -"we won’t stop unless or until you
won’t say it is finished ;)". Then we explained it was not the custom its
Punjabiyan da style....
We all
start with same step and same stanza.."Teri maa di...teri bahen
di..." and oye hoye oye oye...and rail gaddi step...to hold kammar of all
passengers ;)
.
One thing
ladki waale was missing...Non veg butter chicken...without chicken it was like
"we are on fasting...". Ladke waale was Brahmin so Priyanka's family
had to be adjust.....All were satisfied with Maa di daal tadke waali.It
is National meal for all North Indian.....
Kher
whatever is the culture, we all are happy and satisfied and finally both got
married and living happy life....
