I know its very common statement " Health is the best Wealth" But now a days i am feeling its real meaning.I don't know when and at what stage people realized "so much money will kill you and and pleasant money will build you..."
I am living with this thought from last 2 years.I know my state of mind and living style which is quite different then normal person because at my age people got married and having a kids.But this all are unnatural and just excuses for you.If you have wife / Husband or Kids.i have my mom / dad to take care and my few needed friends to help.I know you must say we have also parents to take care.
Then i would say stamina is same, its depends how much your are distributed?? I am utilizing all my efforts for them and you have distributed the same efforts in all of them and i admit you are more burden then me but still i know its all about mind set.
The equation is same.So before reading my blog remove unbalance equation in between you and me.Then only you can understand my words and moral of writing!!
I am the gal who has seen many situation and experience so many things in last thirty years.I have learnt one word Satisfaction and Evaluation.These two words can change the state of mind and let you live life without any negative thoughts.A person who knows his requirements with satisfied attitude and who evaluates how to achieve it then only he can achieve pleasant in his life .
Every person has problem and with problem god gives you some pleasant which majorly people ignore because its very human nature we always distorted when problem hit us we never look at its positive side.I know i want to earn money to build house and live peaceful life , which is the first and last choice of every Human.But the problem will start from how big my house and what kinda facilities i would have because need can be in control but expectation is always out of control.
Well I asked question you know what you are and how much you are ? Focus in words what and how.This is the lower and upper limit of your mind.
If you know what is the your inner strength to win the situation and the maximum limit of your achievement then problem is solved.People are always two step ahead greedy.for example Rohit want to have 2 BHK flat for his life but his greediness and lack of satisfied behavior will force him to buy 3-4BHK flat and this step is the beginning of hell in his life. Now what he would do? he fights for onsite to earn more faster, or will do as much as much as work harder which would be beyond his limit .These steps will make him short temper , high BP patient and uneasy etc etc...!!
In Every second of his life he is thinking of only money , double money and save money.What is meaning of life now?Its good to dream always big but not bigger!! Bigger always kill you.Evaluate yourself , distribute your life in all phases and see which is more pleasant. I am writing some high level now .You guys do sex in daily routine but one thing you do in sex is "comfortable and satisfaction".These are two main targets how make yourself more comfortable and satisfied , The same you should apply in your life.Live life with more comfortable and in satisfaction!!
Anf for this you have to evaluate it.
See your life calculations
Phase 1: 20 years (age 20-25 ) you spend your time in studies and your parents provides you basic need and as best as they can.
Which is passed away, but learn don't expect high comfort zone from parents after all they are human and you would be at the same stage after some time and just think how you manage.
Phase 2: Next 20 years you do lot work like time machine.(Age 25-45)
Phase 3: next 15 years you suffer and look back what you have achieve.(50-65).
Where is the part of enjoyment in your life ? at what stage? No answer?? I know.
You answer should be "in all stages" but 90% people say " old age should be peaceful" why my dear?? are you sure you get chance to see phase 3??
I am not sure.What happened if you die at age of 37 yrs and what would be the meaning of 4 BHK flat??? or rest 15-20 lacs in your bank account?? You must say " This is for family".Common, this is good you are saving but what is the use of it? if you are not with them ? If you have take care of your life and you have enjoyed life with them as much you can then they would be more happier!!
I have seen many people who has earned money but not earned pleasant and their family is more suffering...I don't want to live such kinda life.Life is very much beautiful and enjoy it.Set your targets and achieve it within your limits.
Dream big but not bigger....
I am living with this thought from last 2 years.I know my state of mind and living style which is quite different then normal person because at my age people got married and having a kids.But this all are unnatural and just excuses for you.If you have wife / Husband or Kids.i have my mom / dad to take care and my few needed friends to help.I know you must say we have also parents to take care.
Then i would say stamina is same, its depends how much your are distributed?? I am utilizing all my efforts for them and you have distributed the same efforts in all of them and i admit you are more burden then me but still i know its all about mind set.
The equation is same.So before reading my blog remove unbalance equation in between you and me.Then only you can understand my words and moral of writing!!
I am the gal who has seen many situation and experience so many things in last thirty years.I have learnt one word Satisfaction and Evaluation.These two words can change the state of mind and let you live life without any negative thoughts.A person who knows his requirements with satisfied attitude and who evaluates how to achieve it then only he can achieve pleasant in his life .
Every person has problem and with problem god gives you some pleasant which majorly people ignore because its very human nature we always distorted when problem hit us we never look at its positive side.I know i want to earn money to build house and live peaceful life , which is the first and last choice of every Human.But the problem will start from how big my house and what kinda facilities i would have because need can be in control but expectation is always out of control.
Well I asked question you know what you are and how much you are ? Focus in words what and how.This is the lower and upper limit of your mind.
If you know what is the your inner strength to win the situation and the maximum limit of your achievement then problem is solved.People are always two step ahead greedy.for example Rohit want to have 2 BHK flat for his life but his greediness and lack of satisfied behavior will force him to buy 3-4BHK flat and this step is the beginning of hell in his life. Now what he would do? he fights for onsite to earn more faster, or will do as much as much as work harder which would be beyond his limit .These steps will make him short temper , high BP patient and uneasy etc etc...!!
In Every second of his life he is thinking of only money , double money and save money.What is meaning of life now?Its good to dream always big but not bigger!! Bigger always kill you.Evaluate yourself , distribute your life in all phases and see which is more pleasant. I am writing some high level now .You guys do sex in daily routine but one thing you do in sex is "comfortable and satisfaction".These are two main targets how make yourself more comfortable and satisfied , The same you should apply in your life.Live life with more comfortable and in satisfaction!!
Anf for this you have to evaluate it.
See your life calculations
Phase 1: 20 years (age 20-25 ) you spend your time in studies and your parents provides you basic need and as best as they can.
Which is passed away, but learn don't expect high comfort zone from parents after all they are human and you would be at the same stage after some time and just think how you manage.
Phase 2: Next 20 years you do lot work like time machine.(Age 25-45)
Phase 3: next 15 years you suffer and look back what you have achieve.(50-65).
Where is the part of enjoyment in your life ? at what stage? No answer?? I know.
You answer should be "in all stages" but 90% people say " old age should be peaceful" why my dear?? are you sure you get chance to see phase 3??
I am not sure.What happened if you die at age of 37 yrs and what would be the meaning of 4 BHK flat??? or rest 15-20 lacs in your bank account?? You must say " This is for family".Common, this is good you are saving but what is the use of it? if you are not with them ? If you have take care of your life and you have enjoyed life with them as much you can then they would be more happier!!
I have seen many people who has earned money but not earned pleasant and their family is more suffering...I don't want to live such kinda life.Life is very much beautiful and enjoy it.Set your targets and achieve it within your limits.
Dream big but not bigger....
hey dear... i dont know you but i got really impressed after reading your blog... people actually wont accept all these facts but when they think about it they will realize... what you have written is very true... even i have seen people who earn alot of money for their family, but they dont spent not even 5 mins with their family. dats soo bad...anyway nice blog & keep gng dear.. all the best ;-)
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