Today I was talking to my best friend...and during our chat we had very hot discussion about love -"Why love doesn't happen every time?"
She had very strong relationship with my friend and they both were in deeply love but due to some misunderstanding they gave up to the relationship and move on in their life, now after 2 years still she feels the same for him and she is not in love with her husband...she said he is loving caring and dedicated and the best partner but I don't why I don't love him as much as I should be. I do care and respect him a lot..but somehow I am not madly in love with him....what is the reason??...
Well love is not like it happens only one time in life..it can happen any time with anybody at any point of time and age , but its always happen by its choice only. You can not force yourself....I don't know how we control it...what I feel she is surrounded with many responsibilities after marriage ..so she couldn't find time for herself to feel. May be this is the reason but when she thinks about her x one she still feels the same as 2 years back...why? I don't know its good or bad but it is not her mistake and I don't think she should change feelings...because it is just feelings....and feelings is not in our control....
What I feel its takes time...may be she cannot love her husband whole life but love will change definition for her when she will become mom and she would pour her whole love , dedication and madness for her kids...because we gals are just like that only.. and I know my friend she is the woman of her rules. Woman knows how to make balance of feelings....sometimes missing part of love from partner make us weak but in other second we diverge ourself for our kids and pour all our love dedication for our kids which somehow fulfill our feelings and hidden loneliness...its my personal experience too.....
She had very strong relationship with my friend and they both were in deeply love but due to some misunderstanding they gave up to the relationship and move on in their life, now after 2 years still she feels the same for him and she is not in love with her husband...she said he is loving caring and dedicated and the best partner but I don't why I don't love him as much as I should be. I do care and respect him a lot..but somehow I am not madly in love with him....what is the reason??...
Well love is not like it happens only one time in life..it can happen any time with anybody at any point of time and age , but its always happen by its choice only. You can not force yourself....I don't know how we control it...what I feel she is surrounded with many responsibilities after marriage ..so she couldn't find time for herself to feel. May be this is the reason but when she thinks about her x one she still feels the same as 2 years back...why? I don't know its good or bad but it is not her mistake and I don't think she should change feelings...because it is just feelings....and feelings is not in our control....
What I feel its takes time...may be she cannot love her husband whole life but love will change definition for her when she will become mom and she would pour her whole love , dedication and madness for her kids...because we gals are just like that only.. and I know my friend she is the woman of her rules. Woman knows how to make balance of feelings....sometimes missing part of love from partner make us weak but in other second we diverge ourself for our kids and pour all our love dedication for our kids which somehow fulfill our feelings and hidden loneliness...its my personal experience too.....
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