Today I am writing about common perception. I don’t know why people are always concerned for this word?? I have decided I would remain in single profile, I won’t get marry and have no problem of being single woman, but parents …frds..Cousins are very much concern for my decision…they always focus on one word If u remain single then after some time I would be lonely and depressive person.
I just want to ask you why u always relates loneliness with singlehood. I am asking u guys..are married person are not lonely? They are not in depression??
Loneliness can happened with any anyone and at any time ..it doesn’t matter u are single or engaged. It matters with other factors…….
I am engaged personality , very much rigid and independent girl. I don’t feel to have partner or company for talks ..for shop or somehow to share internal feelings…I always do whatever I want and I always consider myself is the best company !! What I think or you can say I believe Independency and activeness is the biggest enemy of Loneliness. So to being Single girl not a problem unless and until u don’t feel bad and different from this world. Enjoy your life in your way…..if you don’t wanna be in any restriction and any border then go ahead and feel it….what I think if u do mistake then only you can learn…if you would learn then you can gain…and life is box of gain and loss….
Some people have some more perception about the Singlehood…a Single persona always selfish and mean they cannot adjust with normal world. Well a person cannot be single…we have population of 100 crore in india…working in MNC with around more than 1000 employees…living with our parents…meeting daily strangers in bus…market…interacting many people on phone…..so we are really alone???think??
It’s all about mind game…..it’s all about our expectation….If you are good in behaviour and attitude..everyone with you but not all the time …because all have their personal life…..so be good and low down your expectation…this would definitely make your life very easy and simple!!
I know many guys are thinking I am 29 and I don’t have much experience that’s why I am saying this stuff very easily…..but dear friends….if you won’t experience you won’t enjoy life…I m living with my experience …..
The world has changed and people are thinking and living in better way now...but perception are very tough to change ....not impossible...so change the perception of Single hood.It's not key of Loneliness it key of independent and.....i am not saying all should go for this..if u wanna have partner and enjoy ur life with someone then go ahead ...it's again beautiful part of life....
and what i can....Life is beautiful and make it more beautiful without hurting someone and live life with peace and calm!!
Nice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeletehi Alpa,
ReplyDeleteWhat ever you are saying is fine just like to reading a book. YOu wanted to become independent it does't means you should remain in single.
It is tuff to explain the positive and negative side of it but it is kind of experince.
one more things people that are arround us gives support to acheive the goals. May be you have some bad experience , not sure , But I feel we get what ever we like , Single / Double is not the hard stop.
Again I am saying it is tuff to explain. It can we understood / Feel.
Any way its your life you can take your decesions.
Asheesh
This article not for single hood decision...its discussion about why we always relate Singlehood with loneliness
ReplyDeleteYes , You are very much right.
ReplyDeleteI am agree with your points like "f you are good in behaviour and attitude..everyone with you but not all the time …because all have their personal life…..so be good and low down your expectation…this would definitely make your life very easy and simple!!"
but last Singlehood with loneliness is true and we can not dined it , I am not considering exceptional Person Like Mother mother teresa , Gandhi ji etc.
These are differnt kind of person and every one dont have same thing. What ever people we see arround us other than special one are professional relation either in work place or else. They are very much professional , Think about some of the people arround you. They are your friend , but , are you able to share very thing with you? ????