Best walk ? Is it with your mother, when you were 10 Months old....Is with your dad , when you wanna share your career and business with him as a friend or Is it with your Sister with whom you shared your first crush..or with your first love, by holding hands with warm feelings...
Every phase we have the best walk with different meaning and feelings.....I really miss my walk in my school days...yeah it was punishment!! I got late every time because at that time i hate school and studies.....but love to stand and walk in playground!! It was not like punishment for me it was just best time pass in school....bole toh ek chutkara tha...classes and teachers se :))
At that time , Punishment for gals was to make round of big school...and one round would take apprx 20-30 mints and we had to walk with upward holding hands at least 1 hr :)).My classmates didn't like it but i love it...
Well now a days...there is no punishment ..no walk only run run and run....behind the money...name and fame....which is totally spontaneous!!
Thursday, November 24, 2011
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Mail To Aamir
Today I have written mail to my favorite actor Aamir Khan, I don't know its right or wrong....I don't know its correct id or not...even i don't think he will reply me or not.One thought came into my mind and i executed :) as its my nature....
well I just wanna share some moments of my life with him and wanted he would make some common man movie base on that.I know its very common thought every second man have the same thought , but its just positive thought.....rest is my life and fortune!!
From last 1 month i don't have much work load and don't have any positive promotion..that makes me busy in thinking and explore myself :)).Guys as you know acting and thinking about anything anytime somehow dreaming is my favorite job.Now you must be thinking , I don't think too much and Thinking is my fav job...yeah there is small layer diff b/w these two words.
Thinking is just hobby , thinking at the small moments , Just think and execute the thing don't burden on your head.Think alot means , you always put burden on your head.....its kinda door of tension !!
Just change the way of thinking life is cool and Beautiful :)!!
well I just wanna share some moments of my life with him and wanted he would make some common man movie base on that.I know its very common thought every second man have the same thought , but its just positive thought.....rest is my life and fortune!!
From last 1 month i don't have much work load and don't have any positive promotion..that makes me busy in thinking and explore myself :)).Guys as you know acting and thinking about anything anytime somehow dreaming is my favorite job.Now you must be thinking , I don't think too much and Thinking is my fav job...yeah there is small layer diff b/w these two words.
Thinking is just hobby , thinking at the small moments , Just think and execute the thing don't burden on your head.Think alot means , you always put burden on your head.....its kinda door of tension !!
Just change the way of thinking life is cool and Beautiful :)!!
Monday, September 26, 2011
dil pareshan hain ...raat kaali hai...
These lines are from "BOL" movie...i dont know why i have watched this movie...but its gud i have watched this movie....very beautiful and heart touching movie....from last 3 days i am daily thinking about it , its dialog everything ...
Somehow i relate few moments of my life with this movie but not exactly...but one dialog i cant forget "jab khila nahin sakte ...toh paisa kyn karte ho" I have seen that time...when my family facing financial problem and then my mother used to blame my father and dadi the same thing....we are three sister.....at that time i also have the same mind set...why dad why?
"Is kahani ko kaun rokega...." Its very touching line....why Indian families still demand baby boy ???even few of cousin are well educated but they have same thinking level.....
But time has changed and father has supported us alot..he is the man who never shows his anger and gave us best to best love and education...but we know...he has a little bit tammanna...to have boy!!
Somehow i relate few moments of my life with this movie but not exactly...but one dialog i cant forget "jab khila nahin sakte ...toh paisa kyn karte ho" I have seen that time...when my family facing financial problem and then my mother used to blame my father and dadi the same thing....we are three sister.....at that time i also have the same mind set...why dad why?
"Is kahani ko kaun rokega...." Its very touching line....why Indian families still demand baby boy ???even few of cousin are well educated but they have same thinking level.....
But time has changed and father has supported us alot..he is the man who never shows his anger and gave us best to best love and education...but we know...he has a little bit tammanna...to have boy!!
Sunday, September 11, 2011
Delhi rickshawala
Delhi rickshaw wala....inki apni he class aur baat kuch khaas hoti hai...can say they are very much special for us....yeh agar Delhi main na ho toh traffic jaam khatam ho jayega..aur humari traffic police ka work load kam ho jayega agar unka workload kam ho gaya toh traffic police main opening kam hogi ...agar wahan opening kam huyi toh kaafi log berojgar ho jayenge aur agar janta janadan berojgar huyi toh crime badd jayega...
in short every rickshaw wala.is responsible to control crime joh delhi police nahin karpaayi voh humare rickshaw waale ne kar dikhaya :))
Yeh toh huyi security ki baat...aab bari aati hain inke gharon ki baat....these guys stay either in jhuggi or they have their own shelter house rickshaw....but now u guys must be thinking isey fayda kaise?? Dekho agar yeh log jhuggi main nahin rahenge toh sakar bahot sara commission khaa kar inki zameen parr maal banwayegi...right isey zameen ka rate badega right...rate badega toh mahengai badegi...aur isey humari aam janta pareshan hogi ...so socho doston socho....yeh rickshawaale kitne sahi bande...bole toh allah k bande...joh humare Finance minister nahin kar paaye voh in rickshawalon ne kar dikhaya!!
One more surprise i wanna add in my list :))..Language...inki apni pahechan hai yeh aisi english bolte aur likhte hain...yahan angrez apni angrezi bhul jaayega na oxforst inko apni dictionary main add karke sammaanit karegi....!!
Dono he case main humara bhala hai humari Hindi language dominate karegi purey world main kynki bihari sabse jada bachey paida karte hain aur ek samaya aisa aayega jab har ghar main bihari hoga aur yeh kaha jaayega "aaloo ko aur bihari har jagha paaye jaate hain " (in place allo aur sardar har jagah hote hain)
kyn bhai kaisa lagva???
I know i know u all acrzy to know more about our bihari rickshaw wala....but kya karu jada likha do lallu rabari ji akar mujhe apne personal assistant bana denge ...aur that i cant afford!!
in short every rickshaw wala.is responsible to control crime joh delhi police nahin karpaayi voh humare rickshaw waale ne kar dikhaya :))
Yeh toh huyi security ki baat...aab bari aati hain inke gharon ki baat....these guys stay either in jhuggi or they have their own shelter house rickshaw....but now u guys must be thinking isey fayda kaise?? Dekho agar yeh log jhuggi main nahin rahenge toh sakar bahot sara commission khaa kar inki zameen parr maal banwayegi...right isey zameen ka rate badega right...rate badega toh mahengai badegi...aur isey humari aam janta pareshan hogi ...so socho doston socho....yeh rickshawaale kitne sahi bande...bole toh allah k bande...joh humare Finance minister nahin kar paaye voh in rickshawalon ne kar dikhaya!!
One more surprise i wanna add in my list :))..Language...inki apni pahechan hai yeh aisi english bolte aur likhte hain...yahan angrez apni angrezi bhul jaayega na oxforst inko apni dictionary main add karke sammaanit karegi....!!
Dono he case main humara bhala hai humari Hindi language dominate karegi purey world main kynki bihari sabse jada bachey paida karte hain aur ek samaya aisa aayega jab har ghar main bihari hoga aur yeh kaha jaayega "aaloo ko aur bihari har jagha paaye jaate hain " (in place allo aur sardar har jagah hote hain)
kyn bhai kaisa lagva???
I know i know u all acrzy to know more about our bihari rickshaw wala....but kya karu jada likha do lallu rabari ji akar mujhe apne personal assistant bana denge ...aur that i cant afford!!
Local Traveling ...:)))
Delli main travel karna apne aap main ek challenge hai chahe voh BUS main , metro main ya rickshaw !! Yahan har cheej ka apna he maja level and Specialization hai...
If you are traveling in Bus ...then you always have 1-1 with JAAT driver /conductor...waise bola jata hai jaaton ka ladka ya bandook chalata hai ya bus....
agar aap rickshaw main jayenge toh always have bihari babu...bole toh bihari ya IAS officer banega ya riksha chalayega...waise ajkal IT main bhi aa jatein hain :)) to get BHALUE for variable... actually they use 'BH' in place of 'V'
aur agar aap Metro main jaa rahe ho joh wahan mixed community mil jayegi so dont worry in metro , but metro main alag he duniya hai....aapko 2 seater main 2 hanson ka jodha milega....ya voh uske sath waali joiner main ek dusare k headphone sunte huye....aur mann main ek he gana hoha.."khullum khulla pyar karenge hum dono ....is duniya se nahin darenge hum dono"
bujurg log apni reserved kota ki seat jarur lenege aur ladkiyon wala dabba bhara raheta hai and smell like a rose garden.....jahan aapko har season k phool milenge.....rest boxes main young boys always in standing position becoz voh bechare chaha kar bhi seat parr baith nahin sakte aur galti se baith gaye toh unki maa bahen ya pita samaan purush unhe utha dete hain....
Middle age man ...hmmmm hu hu inke baare main likhna thoda controversial hota hai but interesting bhi.....Actually yeh raat main thdoa late sote hain.....stop ur dirty mind...aray bachon ka homework...biwi se ladai....aur etc etc...reason se...
haan haan aur bhi reason hote hain....but metro main inka sabse bura haal hai ...agar kisi ladki se takra jaayen....toh bas woman mukti morcha unhe daba dega.....agar aadmi se takra jaaye..."Haramkhor..saale pichey ho jaa....ya aray bhai aram se.....etc etc....!!
but kya karen...jindgi hai he aisi "aur aise he milegi dubara"
Kuch mast community k log bhi hote hain....is metro main.....u knw...inko rights milega ya nahin milega yeh toh inka devta he bata sakta hai but inke liye travel karna jaise ramgopal verma ki aag film main item song hona ....ya himesh reshamiya k sarror baar bar sunana....kynki yeh jahan bhi khade hon...wahin unko apna jahan lagta hai ....except first box of metro...aur kabhi moka chukane se baaj nahin aate......abhi abhi mera ek dost inka shikar hote hote bacha.....ohh god pls metro main inka kaher se bachao....
Traveling in Buses main mast raheta hai ..bachapnn main 1 rs coin and now a days 5 rs coin used by private driver to control bus and humara DTC buses ka level high hai ajkal they used sitti....ya digital indicator!!
but technology aney se unka style change nahin hua ...bole toh....wahi common dialog hai joh last 29 yrs se sun rahi hun..."Aey gaaddi eib rok de...chori baaithh jaa...kae jaa raya se....kivaad band kar de....taau tu na manaya"!! they have their own style aur aaj bhi buses yeh log bike k style main chalate hain.....aur private bus waale second lane main he rokate hain taaki koi aur takeover na kare.....
but bhala ho low floors buses ka jinhoney kuch better kia..and always prefer to sit at back side..always fresh and have better view...:))
Next our so called rickshaw wala.......inke baare main jitna bolu ya likhu kam hai so i would like to give honor to write in separate blog :))
If you are traveling in Bus ...then you always have 1-1 with JAAT driver /conductor...waise bola jata hai jaaton ka ladka ya bandook chalata hai ya bus....
agar aap rickshaw main jayenge toh always have bihari babu...bole toh bihari ya IAS officer banega ya riksha chalayega...waise ajkal IT main bhi aa jatein hain :)) to get BHALUE for variable... actually they use 'BH' in place of 'V'
aur agar aap Metro main jaa rahe ho joh wahan mixed community mil jayegi so dont worry in metro , but metro main alag he duniya hai....aapko 2 seater main 2 hanson ka jodha milega....ya voh uske sath waali joiner main ek dusare k headphone sunte huye....aur mann main ek he gana hoha.."khullum khulla pyar karenge hum dono ....is duniya se nahin darenge hum dono"
bujurg log apni reserved kota ki seat jarur lenege aur ladkiyon wala dabba bhara raheta hai and smell like a rose garden.....jahan aapko har season k phool milenge.....rest boxes main young boys always in standing position becoz voh bechare chaha kar bhi seat parr baith nahin sakte aur galti se baith gaye toh unki maa bahen ya pita samaan purush unhe utha dete hain....
Middle age man ...hmmmm hu hu inke baare main likhna thoda controversial hota hai but interesting bhi.....Actually yeh raat main thdoa late sote hain.....stop ur dirty mind...aray bachon ka homework...biwi se ladai....aur etc etc...reason se...
haan haan aur bhi reason hote hain....but metro main inka sabse bura haal hai ...agar kisi ladki se takra jaayen....toh bas woman mukti morcha unhe daba dega.....agar aadmi se takra jaaye..."Haramkhor..saale pichey ho jaa....ya aray bhai aram se.....etc etc....!!
but kya karen...jindgi hai he aisi "aur aise he milegi dubara"
Kuch mast community k log bhi hote hain....is metro main.....u knw...inko rights milega ya nahin milega yeh toh inka devta he bata sakta hai but inke liye travel karna jaise ramgopal verma ki aag film main item song hona ....ya himesh reshamiya k sarror baar bar sunana....kynki yeh jahan bhi khade hon...wahin unko apna jahan lagta hai ....except first box of metro...aur kabhi moka chukane se baaj nahin aate......abhi abhi mera ek dost inka shikar hote hote bacha.....ohh god pls metro main inka kaher se bachao....
Traveling in Buses main mast raheta hai ..bachapnn main 1 rs coin and now a days 5 rs coin used by private driver to control bus and humara DTC buses ka level high hai ajkal they used sitti....ya digital indicator!!
but technology aney se unka style change nahin hua ...bole toh....wahi common dialog hai joh last 29 yrs se sun rahi hun..."Aey gaaddi eib rok de...chori baaithh jaa...kae jaa raya se....kivaad band kar de....taau tu na manaya"!! they have their own style aur aaj bhi buses yeh log bike k style main chalate hain.....aur private bus waale second lane main he rokate hain taaki koi aur takeover na kare.....
but bhala ho low floors buses ka jinhoney kuch better kia..and always prefer to sit at back side..always fresh and have better view...:))
Next our so called rickshaw wala.......inke baare main jitna bolu ya likhu kam hai so i would like to give honor to write in separate blog :))
Saturday, September 10, 2011
ATTITUDE about designation
yeah yeah....Attitude ya yeah he naaiya dubota aur paar lagta hai... attitude matters alot in our life specially in our work environment....aur bole toh humian joh saale main 2 baar number milte hain yaani so called rating scheduler!!
Yeh scheduler saal main 2 baar execute hota hai aur logon k dimag main iska impact purey 365 din....jinko mitha phall milta hai voh apni chest 36-40 karke chalte hain aur jinko nichey gira diya jata hai voh aur 2 inch chodi karke isliye chalte hain ...taaki next time acha jawab de aur gandi waali game khel kar....
Ladies staff apni frustation ko limitless bitching karke and Gent staff apni frustration jada se jada condom ka use karke ya cigarette /Daaru ki bottles khaali karke dur karte hain..
Kher yeh duniya ka yahi datoor hai no one can change it...well kahan raja ghosh kahan gangu telli bt kya kare humare desh main sab raja ghosh hai aur ek dusarey ko telli samjha kar dabana chahata hai...
Designation yeh sala bahot bade wala akshar hai....insan designation k naam parr sabki mother sister together karte hain..IT world main har insaan apne aapko DABANG samjhta hai....agar isko aur vistar se liko toh yahan har londa sallu yaani dabang hai aur har londia sheila hai jiksi jawani main project hit hoga.....
yeh attitude and designation ka combination paida karte hain company main MACHI bazaar and Political environment...
IT main jiske 3 saal complete huye usey lagta hai coding bahot huyi aab management karte hain..bolte toh team ko manage... bole toh apana kaam kisi aur k ser par maaro...apana kaam sawayam karne waala chapter joh humne hindi pustak baal bharti main pada tha sab bhul chuke hain....aaj apna kaam sawayam kisi aur se karvaao aur baaki apne raste k kaante ho hatao...
aab Mujhe dekho haal main mujhe 5 saal k exp parr ek team di jimain 18 logon ko manage karna tha aur mera dimag 7th floor parr chadd gaya...like now i m the queen....but jaise he prj cleint ne cancel kia.....mera dimag basement daal diya :)))..but aab is floor up down waali lift se bahar aa gayi hun..... :))
I know this is boring so i would stop here.. ;)
Yeh scheduler saal main 2 baar execute hota hai aur logon k dimag main iska impact purey 365 din....jinko mitha phall milta hai voh apni chest 36-40 karke chalte hain aur jinko nichey gira diya jata hai voh aur 2 inch chodi karke isliye chalte hain ...taaki next time acha jawab de aur gandi waali game khel kar....
Ladies staff apni frustation ko limitless bitching karke and Gent staff apni frustration jada se jada condom ka use karke ya cigarette /Daaru ki bottles khaali karke dur karte hain..
Kher yeh duniya ka yahi datoor hai no one can change it...well kahan raja ghosh kahan gangu telli bt kya kare humare desh main sab raja ghosh hai aur ek dusarey ko telli samjha kar dabana chahata hai...
Designation yeh sala bahot bade wala akshar hai....insan designation k naam parr sabki mother sister together karte hain..IT world main har insaan apne aapko DABANG samjhta hai....agar isko aur vistar se liko toh yahan har londa sallu yaani dabang hai aur har londia sheila hai jiksi jawani main project hit hoga.....
yeh attitude and designation ka combination paida karte hain company main MACHI bazaar and Political environment...
IT main jiske 3 saal complete huye usey lagta hai coding bahot huyi aab management karte hain..bolte toh team ko manage... bole toh apana kaam kisi aur k ser par maaro...apana kaam sawayam karne waala chapter joh humne hindi pustak baal bharti main pada tha sab bhul chuke hain....aaj apna kaam sawayam kisi aur se karvaao aur baaki apne raste k kaante ho hatao...
aab Mujhe dekho haal main mujhe 5 saal k exp parr ek team di jimain 18 logon ko manage karna tha aur mera dimag 7th floor parr chadd gaya...like now i m the queen....but jaise he prj cleint ne cancel kia.....mera dimag basement daal diya :)))..but aab is floor up down waali lift se bahar aa gayi hun..... :))
I know this is boring so i would stop here.. ;)
Corporate World
World is beautiful...it is river where i am flowing and flowing ...I love this line Life is beautiful becoz my world is beautiful....but what's the limit of beautiful? what is the definition of beautiful...??
Its just feelings and feelings is Just feelings...today we are in feeling corporatism ..ya ya frds its new one...nahin bole toh 30-40 saal ho gaye hain....
Yeh voh feelings hai jab main morning main jaldi utha kar gym jaati hun becoz mera weight badd gaya hai and the reason behind it simple-I spend my daily atleast 9 hrs in front of PC without moving my ass in to and fro motion....becoz Client ki mail se inbox open hota hai and client ki call se he khatam hota hai... Client mera BF ban gaya jisey main gud morning se lekar ginite gud evening afternoon sab kuch time parr wish karti hun aur jis din na wish karu voh ruth jata......and usko mananey k liye i have to spend 18 hrs on next day....
Do u think?? yeh hum roj karte hai ??? ha ha ha No no yeh bas likhne k liye likha hai ki we are doing 9-10 daily work in office...agar yeh kaam sahi main karte hote toh shayd shayd...we have reached at top of the world and aaj US / UK process k liye nahin US and UK guys would work for us and that's call India Shift and Process and BPO and call center main londe londiyan Indian culture ko follow kar rahe hote rather then speaking US / UK words accent they would speak in Hindi or Punjabi -"aur malkon ki bechana hai?? kiney takan tawad jawab aavega??" etc etc...
Ground level reality is that Indian has adopted this corporatism feelings as a ass whole....but they forget the actually feelings and rules...
I am working for big Brand name company to earn money . onsite opportunity and life security..kynki jab recession aaye meri ship na dubey...becoz brand name floating in sea and rest small company sinks very easily!!
Roj morning main utha kar yahi sochna I would do best job ..and mera manager mere se khush hokar mujsey H1 bharwayaega aur then fly fly....ya Ek star award naamak title hota hai joh har kaam karne waale ko milta but in this IT world kaam se jada joh best tareeke se political way main shor sharaba nikal kar kaam kare usey yeh award smaaniit hota hai :))
Kher yeh feeling sirf tab takk aati hai jab takk main swipe na karu....company k ander ghuste he haryavani jaat/UP gaaon wale jAAt mera swagat karte hain....they are getting 10-8k salary mahina with dress free and kabhi kabhi company ka khana bhi milta hai....bt what i feel they are the best guys becoz they have won the title of honesty and dedicated work.Kynki aate jaate cars and scooter parking main they listen humare taaeny baaney and kaam bhi karna aur malik ki gaali khana aur usey jada imaandari se kaam karna aur sabse badi BAAT Politely sunna and samjhana!!
dusari badi baat inka world sabse jada secure hai recession main jada farak nahin padega...security sabse last main jaati hai :)))...but other side of grass always greens...may b joh main dekh rahi hun waisa na ho....
One more thing Big brand main Aurtein jada hoti hain and usmain se 40% pregnant hoti becoz wahan holidays aram se milti hai....30% just married...again usnko maa bahen ..bhai aur kuch khaas frds se batein cum gossiping karne ka moka and time bharpur milta hai.....rest 20% BF and TP waali hoti hain...idhar udhar ghuma kar apna kaam nikalwa kar 9-5(actual office 6 baje takk hota hai) nikal jaati hai....
rest 10% are really and true hard working gals....jinko upar ki moh maya se koi farak nahin padta aur joh sahi main true Indian woman hoti hai......Well u people must be thinking being a lady why i am writing this stuff...AKHIR EK AURAT HE DUSARI AURAT KO SAMJHATI HAI :)))
The same thing happens with MAN also...but in different way....in big brand company 50% males are married with tummy out and less hairs on head and i cant comment on other body parts hairs ;))) just dirty joke!! yeh male voh frustrated male hote hain who wants to change the company but can't change it becoz they are now ghar jamai and knowledge bhi inki sexual activities ki tarah ho gayi hai wanna do bt nt able to do.....and old fashion.....only knows few pose..yaani logically too weak.... politically too much strong to dominate (as they do in their bed with wives or extra marital affair....)
rest 50% main adhey londe sahi main energetic hote hain joh time se kaam karke company se 9-2-11 ho jaatein hain!! and rest will do wahi maghad giri ...ladki patana...fass jaye toh aapki bhabhi na fasey toh ek achi dost.....jinka life main jada motivation nahin hota...shuru k kuch saal MBA ki preparation main nikalte hain baaki k kuch saaal idhar udhar jugaad karne main......
Well the most common thing in male and female is..."ATTITUDE about designation!!" well will write about it in next blog!!
Note: Sorry guys don't hurt if hurt then i don't mind ;))) i give dammm to ur feelings !!
Its just feelings and feelings is Just feelings...today we are in feeling corporatism ..ya ya frds its new one...nahin bole toh 30-40 saal ho gaye hain....
Yeh voh feelings hai jab main morning main jaldi utha kar gym jaati hun becoz mera weight badd gaya hai and the reason behind it simple-I spend my daily atleast 9 hrs in front of PC without moving my ass in to and fro motion....becoz Client ki mail se inbox open hota hai and client ki call se he khatam hota hai... Client mera BF ban gaya jisey main gud morning se lekar ginite gud evening afternoon sab kuch time parr wish karti hun aur jis din na wish karu voh ruth jata......and usko mananey k liye i have to spend 18 hrs on next day....
Do u think?? yeh hum roj karte hai ??? ha ha ha No no yeh bas likhne k liye likha hai ki we are doing 9-10 daily work in office...agar yeh kaam sahi main karte hote toh shayd shayd...we have reached at top of the world and aaj US / UK process k liye nahin US and UK guys would work for us and that's call India Shift and Process and BPO and call center main londe londiyan Indian culture ko follow kar rahe hote rather then speaking US / UK words accent they would speak in Hindi or Punjabi -"aur malkon ki bechana hai?? kiney takan tawad jawab aavega??" etc etc...
Ground level reality is that Indian has adopted this corporatism feelings as a ass whole....but they forget the actually feelings and rules...
I am working for big Brand name company to earn money . onsite opportunity and life security..kynki jab recession aaye meri ship na dubey...becoz brand name floating in sea and rest small company sinks very easily!!
Roj morning main utha kar yahi sochna I would do best job ..and mera manager mere se khush hokar mujsey H1 bharwayaega aur then fly fly....ya Ek star award naamak title hota hai joh har kaam karne waale ko milta but in this IT world kaam se jada joh best tareeke se political way main shor sharaba nikal kar kaam kare usey yeh award smaaniit hota hai :))
Kher yeh feeling sirf tab takk aati hai jab takk main swipe na karu....company k ander ghuste he haryavani jaat/UP gaaon wale jAAt mera swagat karte hain....they are getting 10-8k salary mahina with dress free and kabhi kabhi company ka khana bhi milta hai....bt what i feel they are the best guys becoz they have won the title of honesty and dedicated work.Kynki aate jaate cars and scooter parking main they listen humare taaeny baaney and kaam bhi karna aur malik ki gaali khana aur usey jada imaandari se kaam karna aur sabse badi BAAT Politely sunna and samjhana!!
dusari badi baat inka world sabse jada secure hai recession main jada farak nahin padega...security sabse last main jaati hai :)))...but other side of grass always greens...may b joh main dekh rahi hun waisa na ho....
One more thing Big brand main Aurtein jada hoti hain and usmain se 40% pregnant hoti becoz wahan holidays aram se milti hai....30% just married...again usnko maa bahen ..bhai aur kuch khaas frds se batein cum gossiping karne ka moka and time bharpur milta hai.....rest 20% BF and TP waali hoti hain...idhar udhar ghuma kar apna kaam nikalwa kar 9-5(actual office 6 baje takk hota hai) nikal jaati hai....
rest 10% are really and true hard working gals....jinko upar ki moh maya se koi farak nahin padta aur joh sahi main true Indian woman hoti hai......Well u people must be thinking being a lady why i am writing this stuff...AKHIR EK AURAT HE DUSARI AURAT KO SAMJHATI HAI :)))
The same thing happens with MAN also...but in different way....in big brand company 50% males are married with tummy out and less hairs on head and i cant comment on other body parts hairs ;))) just dirty joke!! yeh male voh frustrated male hote hain who wants to change the company but can't change it becoz they are now ghar jamai and knowledge bhi inki sexual activities ki tarah ho gayi hai wanna do bt nt able to do.....and old fashion.....only knows few pose..yaani logically too weak.... politically too much strong to dominate (as they do in their bed with wives or extra marital affair....)
rest 50% main adhey londe sahi main energetic hote hain joh time se kaam karke company se 9-2-11 ho jaatein hain!! and rest will do wahi maghad giri ...ladki patana...fass jaye toh aapki bhabhi na fasey toh ek achi dost.....jinka life main jada motivation nahin hota...shuru k kuch saal MBA ki preparation main nikalte hain baaki k kuch saaal idhar udhar jugaad karne main......
Well the most common thing in male and female is..."ATTITUDE about designation!!" well will write about it in next blog!!
Note: Sorry guys don't hurt if hurt then i don't mind ;))) i give dammm to ur feelings !!
Saturday, July 9, 2011
Life is Beautiful: Bench Time
Life is Beautiful: Bench Time: "IT companies has best part BENCH time...specially company like TCS...after lot of fights and struggle i got release from my project and look..."
Bench Time
IT companies has best part BENCH time...specially company like TCS...after lot of fights and struggle i got release from my project and looking next best opportunity..best oppertunity here is run again in donkey race...:)) I hope i dont need to explain it..afterall i m normal personality !!
Well from last 2 weeks i am njoying my bench time in sakari company..and feeling how indian govt feel when they do nothing..
Its mixed-fixed feelings...semi relax and semi in tension about future career....but i am realizing there is only way to make ur career cool and easy....get into big ship and swim in sea with its waves.....no one can destroy you and no one can make u ...its depends on ur luck totally!!
I don't know why people desperate to become an engineer specially software!! but the true fact this is the worst line and best way to make urself such a dumped...fool....and lazy ass!!
Its somewhat like u r fucking in loose den with small p****...u wanna do it bt u cant do it!!
Sometimes i think its better if i wud good chole bhatoore waali or someone else, but as bade log kahe gaye hain...."grass of other side is always green". but i say "i am in desert in both side"....so why don't i shud dream or give me try again to do something else!!
all I can say...bench time is the best to think about yourself with 100% salary!!..yaani kisi aur jagah main asia sukh kahan milega?? somehow its best part and much then other jobs!!
Well from last 2 weeks i am njoying my bench time in sakari company..and feeling how indian govt feel when they do nothing..
Its mixed-fixed feelings...semi relax and semi in tension about future career....but i am realizing there is only way to make ur career cool and easy....get into big ship and swim in sea with its waves.....no one can destroy you and no one can make u ...its depends on ur luck totally!!
I don't know why people desperate to become an engineer specially software!! but the true fact this is the worst line and best way to make urself such a dumped...fool....and lazy ass!!
Its somewhat like u r fucking in loose den with small p****...u wanna do it bt u cant do it!!
Sometimes i think its better if i wud good chole bhatoore waali or someone else, but as bade log kahe gaye hain...."grass of other side is always green". but i say "i am in desert in both side"....so why don't i shud dream or give me try again to do something else!!
all I can say...bench time is the best to think about yourself with 100% salary!!..yaani kisi aur jagah main asia sukh kahan milega?? somehow its best part and much then other jobs!!
Monday, June 13, 2011
Feelings!!! part 2
its continuation of feelings
Stage 4:
Its adult age, when i was 15-16 yrs old...i came to know about feelings between boys and gals...i got attraction from my seniors...class boys and many smart hunks...at this age..usually we gals attracted toward intelligent classmates....becoz they help us in our studies.....or sport man becoz they are like macho man...we hate naughty boys becoz voh serious nahin hote....
ya phir seniors ...joh humain mentor ki tarah lagte hain.....gals always dream like ->"pahela nasha...pahela khuma kinda songs".....its beautiful time....we wear short scurts...folded school shirt....we don't tie our hairs ...just try to make them more stylish .....always believe yes we the most beautiful and think about bright committed future...
Its small time period feelings.....
Stage 5:
Its age b/w 17-21....its quite different then above...we always believe, we have to concerned about our studies...and career and all....voh london ko pyar se jada ghumane main jada maja aata hai...unhe ek paltu kutey ki tarah treat karne main...its out supper bitch feelings...very few of us has true feelings, all about Fun kinda feelings...becoz the most imp thing is our career and dream for future to marry a rich and well settled man!!!
I don't thinks its wrong.....becoz its woman tendency ,she want safe and bright future lol!!
Stage 6:
During job...its mixture of all feelings .......
To be continue!!
Stage 4:
Its adult age, when i was 15-16 yrs old...i came to know about feelings between boys and gals...i got attraction from my seniors...class boys and many smart hunks...at this age..usually we gals attracted toward intelligent classmates....becoz they help us in our studies.....or sport man becoz they are like macho man...we hate naughty boys becoz voh serious nahin hote....
ya phir seniors ...joh humain mentor ki tarah lagte hain.....gals always dream like ->"pahela nasha...pahela khuma kinda songs".....its beautiful time....we wear short scurts...folded school shirt....we don't tie our hairs ...just try to make them more stylish .....always believe yes we the most beautiful and think about bright committed future...
Its small time period feelings.....
Stage 5:
Its age b/w 17-21....its quite different then above...we always believe, we have to concerned about our studies...and career and all....voh london ko pyar se jada ghumane main jada maja aata hai...unhe ek paltu kutey ki tarah treat karne main...its out supper bitch feelings...very few of us has true feelings, all about Fun kinda feelings...becoz the most imp thing is our career and dream for future to marry a rich and well settled man!!!
I don't thinks its wrong.....becoz its woman tendency ,she want safe and bright future lol!!
Stage 6:
During job...its mixture of all feelings .......
To be continue!!
Sunday, May 22, 2011
Feelings!!!
Feelings of Love
feelings of Jealousy
Feelings of Lust
Feelings of taking revenge
feelings of being Rich
Feelings of etc etc
but the most beautiful is FEELING of LOVE....yeah its most beautiful moment that you cannot forget its taste....cannot miss its touch.....cannot share.....Its tough to describe...write and show...
Love can happened at any age ....anytime ...anywhere ...with anybody...i fall in love at different stages of my life and now i m in love with myself becoz i m in SINGLE status ;) but somehow loving yourself is kinda different feelings.Its like u r enjoying ur life in your way and with your rules and regulations....No one can stop u...u r moving like a river with different different waves....
Now a days...i m floating in many directions....and somehow in dreams and feeling of love is very mysterious but its very exciting and daily my date with myself is kinda challenging and experimenting!!
You know one thing ,feeling of Love is superset of all feelings.... jealousy is part of Love...lust is part of Love.....revenge...everything is very much attach to love...
Don't feel bad if u r feeling jealous....lust etc...it's becoz of only one reason :)) Chill frds!!
Let me share something very much interesting....
Stage 1 Love:
When i born in rich family of Chadha, I was in love with my parents...i don't knw anything except my mother tough......and father night stories ..tales.....i remember these two personalities were my world and i can say i had no other option to fall in love with them ;)
it was my native love....and again its beautiful...
Stage 2 love:
its hard to describe...when i was around 5-6 yrs old.....i got new frds in delhi and joined new school... surrounded with diff kinda ..activities...except went to school and studies i loved everything ...i njoy my frd circle...don't wanna study...ABCD!! in loud voice!!
Stage 3 Love:
When i was 10-11 yrs old.....i got understanding of movies....i felt in love with ...guess?? Shah rukh khan and all super comedy hero....i love watching TV and movie....always dreaming i am gud actress....
Its like i m the only one heroine for them....i watched their beautiful clothes...always feel kitni lucky hain...no padai only dance and disco.....like its fairy tale life.....i used to dream like i am cindrealla and meri red belly kahin rahe jayegi and jackpot lag jayega!!
Sometimes i felt....ohh god kaash mein SRk ki beti hoti....i wud be heroine by default!!
This kinda feelings happened till the age of 15-16....i hate going to school and attend classes....i thought its waste of time...i was not made for this stupid things...i m Queen and actress.....like PM who always give an order...all are GULAM for me!!!
But jasie sochte ho waisa hota nahin....i did studies hard....baheno ki maar and maa baapu ki pitai week main ek baar mere dreams ko filter karke mere dimag ko center main laate the Saturday ko....and Sunday balance then again on Monday i used to dream same kinda!!
.............To be cont..
feelings of Jealousy
Feelings of Lust
Feelings of taking revenge
feelings of being Rich
Feelings of etc etc
but the most beautiful is FEELING of LOVE....yeah its most beautiful moment that you cannot forget its taste....cannot miss its touch.....cannot share.....Its tough to describe...write and show...
Love can happened at any age ....anytime ...anywhere ...with anybody...i fall in love at different stages of my life and now i m in love with myself becoz i m in SINGLE status ;) but somehow loving yourself is kinda different feelings.Its like u r enjoying ur life in your way and with your rules and regulations....No one can stop u...u r moving like a river with different different waves....
Now a days...i m floating in many directions....and somehow in dreams and feeling of love is very mysterious but its very exciting and daily my date with myself is kinda challenging and experimenting!!
You know one thing ,feeling of Love is superset of all feelings.... jealousy is part of Love...lust is part of Love.....revenge...everything is very much attach to love...
Don't feel bad if u r feeling jealous....lust etc...it's becoz of only one reason :)) Chill frds!!
Let me share something very much interesting....
Stage 1 Love:
When i born in rich family of Chadha, I was in love with my parents...i don't knw anything except my mother tough......and father night stories ..tales.....i remember these two personalities were my world and i can say i had no other option to fall in love with them ;)
it was my native love....and again its beautiful...
Stage 2 love:
its hard to describe...when i was around 5-6 yrs old.....i got new frds in delhi and joined new school... surrounded with diff kinda ..activities...except went to school and studies i loved everything ...i njoy my frd circle...don't wanna study...ABCD!! in loud voice!!
Stage 3 Love:
When i was 10-11 yrs old.....i got understanding of movies....i felt in love with ...guess?? Shah rukh khan and all super comedy hero....i love watching TV and movie....always dreaming i am gud actress....
Its like i m the only one heroine for them....i watched their beautiful clothes...always feel kitni lucky hain...no padai only dance and disco.....like its fairy tale life.....i used to dream like i am cindrealla and meri red belly kahin rahe jayegi and jackpot lag jayega!!
Sometimes i felt....ohh god kaash mein SRk ki beti hoti....i wud be heroine by default!!
This kinda feelings happened till the age of 15-16....i hate going to school and attend classes....i thought its waste of time...i was not made for this stupid things...i m Queen and actress.....like PM who always give an order...all are GULAM for me!!!
But jasie sochte ho waisa hota nahin....i did studies hard....baheno ki maar and maa baapu ki pitai week main ek baar mere dreams ko filter karke mere dimag ko center main laate the Saturday ko....and Sunday balance then again on Monday i used to dream same kinda!!
.............To be cont..
Sunday, May 8, 2011
Why Singlehood relate to loneliness??
Today I am writing about common perception. I don’t know why people are always concerned for this word?? I have decided I would remain in single profile, I won’t get marry and have no problem of being single woman, but parents …frds..Cousins are very much concern for my decision…they always focus on one word If u remain single then after some time I would be lonely and depressive person.
I just want to ask you why u always relates loneliness with singlehood. I am asking u guys..are married person are not lonely? They are not in depression??
Loneliness can happened with any anyone and at any time ..it doesn’t matter u are single or engaged. It matters with other factors…….
I am engaged personality , very much rigid and independent girl. I don’t feel to have partner or company for talks ..for shop or somehow to share internal feelings…I always do whatever I want and I always consider myself is the best company !! What I think or you can say I believe Independency and activeness is the biggest enemy of Loneliness. So to being Single girl not a problem unless and until u don’t feel bad and different from this world. Enjoy your life in your way…..if you don’t wanna be in any restriction and any border then go ahead and feel it….what I think if u do mistake then only you can learn…if you would learn then you can gain…and life is box of gain and loss….
Some people have some more perception about the Singlehood…a Single persona always selfish and mean they cannot adjust with normal world. Well a person cannot be single…we have population of 100 crore in india…working in MNC with around more than 1000 employees…living with our parents…meeting daily strangers in bus…market…interacting many people on phone…..so we are really alone???think??
It’s all about mind game…..it’s all about our expectation….If you are good in behaviour and attitude..everyone with you but not all the time …because all have their personal life…..so be good and low down your expectation…this would definitely make your life very easy and simple!!
I know many guys are thinking I am 29 and I don’t have much experience that’s why I am saying this stuff very easily…..but dear friends….if you won’t experience you won’t enjoy life…I m living with my experience …..
The world has changed and people are thinking and living in better way now...but perception are very tough to change ....not impossible...so change the perception of Single hood.It's not key of Loneliness it key of independent and.....i am not saying all should go for this..if u wanna have partner and enjoy ur life with someone then go ahead ...it's again beautiful part of life....
and what i can....Life is beautiful and make it more beautiful without hurting someone and live life with peace and calm!!
I just want to ask you why u always relates loneliness with singlehood. I am asking u guys..are married person are not lonely? They are not in depression??
Loneliness can happened with any anyone and at any time ..it doesn’t matter u are single or engaged. It matters with other factors…….
I am engaged personality , very much rigid and independent girl. I don’t feel to have partner or company for talks ..for shop or somehow to share internal feelings…I always do whatever I want and I always consider myself is the best company !! What I think or you can say I believe Independency and activeness is the biggest enemy of Loneliness. So to being Single girl not a problem unless and until u don’t feel bad and different from this world. Enjoy your life in your way…..if you don’t wanna be in any restriction and any border then go ahead and feel it….what I think if u do mistake then only you can learn…if you would learn then you can gain…and life is box of gain and loss….
Some people have some more perception about the Singlehood…a Single persona always selfish and mean they cannot adjust with normal world. Well a person cannot be single…we have population of 100 crore in india…working in MNC with around more than 1000 employees…living with our parents…meeting daily strangers in bus…market…interacting many people on phone…..so we are really alone???think??
It’s all about mind game…..it’s all about our expectation….If you are good in behaviour and attitude..everyone with you but not all the time …because all have their personal life…..so be good and low down your expectation…this would definitely make your life very easy and simple!!
I know many guys are thinking I am 29 and I don’t have much experience that’s why I am saying this stuff very easily…..but dear friends….if you won’t experience you won’t enjoy life…I m living with my experience …..
The world has changed and people are thinking and living in better way now...but perception are very tough to change ....not impossible...so change the perception of Single hood.It's not key of Loneliness it key of independent and.....i am not saying all should go for this..if u wanna have partner and enjoy ur life with someone then go ahead ...it's again beautiful part of life....
and what i can....Life is beautiful and make it more beautiful without hurting someone and live life with peace and calm!!
Saturday, April 23, 2011
Old is Gold…
Hi friends,
Today I am thinking about very common thing…. why we say always-OLD IS GOLD….we have many examples in our life…but one of the best our TV channel, now a days we watch TV 24 by 7 , But still thinking and unsatisfied…always feel-“kya yaar bore ho rahi hun kuch aa nahin raha hai TV main…”
But true fact, we have around 50 channels to watch and in our home theatre we have more than 100 channels….
Now a day’s TV channel Specializations
Sony – Suspense serial-Adalat, Khote sikkey,CID…
COLORS- Beti Special Offer-Is Desh na aana Laado, Uttran,Balika vadhu,Rishton se badi pratha
Star Plus- Ghar ka Drama!! Yeh Rishta kya kahelata hai, Pratigaya, gulal,sasural genda phool
Bindas-Abusive and Cheap language Classes-don’t wanna list them
But in old days Only One Channel Doordashan combination of all colors Comedy, drama, suspense and thrillers
Udaan, aarohan, circus, Hum Log, Byomkesh bakshi,karamchand,farmaan …can’t stop the list
I miss my time....25 minutes serial k liye hum 1 week wait karte the….we watched TV with family ,neighbours…friends…now a days we have 100 channels and still feeling alone and have not much curiosity to watch next episode….kynki Trailer he pura episode hai…aur kya kya kya jaise word ko teen baar alag alag angel se dikhaya jata hai….
In old days. we had moral, practical attitude and no negativity in serial…..but in today’s world we have 90% negativity and rona dhona…..and practical level 0%
Well…time has changed …..Really Old is Gold!!
Sunday, April 17, 2011
Sexuality Question!!
"Sexuality" is today's hot topic or we can say its topmost discussion for all...Today i have read an article about Gandhi-Gandhi was Bisexual...Well its none of our business what was his sexuality...and what he has done in his sex life ...better we should focus what he has done for us...what are his good things for us...but still we always curious to know about his personal and sex life stories.....
Even i am also just like that...today i have read all the articles related to his personal life questions.....
Like Gandhi was Gay....Gandhi was womanizer....Gandhi did **some etc etc...i am asking you...U don't have desire??? U don't watch Porn ?? U don't wanna to experiment?? come on its very common in all of us...but wont disclose it!!
I know many of my male and female friends who watch and try all above and always show they wont do it...like haaaaaaaaaaawww yeh kitna desparate hai...sala kamina bahot **** kinda hai...
Dear friends why you are thinking in that way....just chill and discuss it....every one have some perception and the way of thinking......just share and discuss it with open mind and express your point of view but again don't force it.....
What i feel, Sexuality doesn't matter....only matter the way you are expressing your love to your lover and your satisfaction....So pls stop all the GANDHI GIRI CRAP focus on other problems
Personally,I am totally against of Bisexual. I think if we would support it , then we have to support incest ,prepubescent etc also.what i think If gay marriage is legal then lesbian marriage is also legal...then other way of sex also legal.....
Bisexuality is just psychological problem!! This problem cannot be control but we can treat it, not by making laws and rules....
God made sex is very beautiful activity , so we should enjoy this god gift in correct manner....
In today's world we are very much open for Sex and what i feel its very good to have such kinda openness ....we should discuss it more and more and should give more support to control this bisexuality problem , we should share it with our parents , partner and friends....becoz its against of our nature and its psychological problem ...
But again it is not in our control..it can happen with anyone..even with me...you and with anyone....
Don't shy and let discuss it and share it....and treat it.....and its treatment only discussion and psychological treatment.
We have to open our thinking level and make the people more comfortable ..so that we can enjoy and live normal life....
I know its endless discussion but in this blog i just wanna aware and wanna give new beginning !!
Even i am also just like that...today i have read all the articles related to his personal life questions.....
Like Gandhi was Gay....Gandhi was womanizer....Gandhi did **some etc etc...i am asking you...U don't have desire??? U don't watch Porn ?? U don't wanna to experiment?? come on its very common in all of us...but wont disclose it!!
I know many of my male and female friends who watch and try all above and always show they wont do it...like haaaaaaaaaaawww yeh kitna desparate hai...sala kamina bahot **** kinda hai...
Dear friends why you are thinking in that way....just chill and discuss it....every one have some perception and the way of thinking......just share and discuss it with open mind and express your point of view but again don't force it.....
What i feel, Sexuality doesn't matter....only matter the way you are expressing your love to your lover and your satisfaction....So pls stop all the GANDHI GIRI CRAP focus on other problems
Personally,I am totally against of Bisexual. I think if we would support it , then we have to support incest ,prepubescent etc also.what i think If gay marriage is legal then lesbian marriage is also legal...then other way of sex also legal.....
Bisexuality is just psychological problem!! This problem cannot be control but we can treat it, not by making laws and rules....
God made sex is very beautiful activity , so we should enjoy this god gift in correct manner....
In today's world we are very much open for Sex and what i feel its very good to have such kinda openness ....we should discuss it more and more and should give more support to control this bisexuality problem , we should share it with our parents , partner and friends....becoz its against of our nature and its psychological problem ...
But again it is not in our control..it can happen with anyone..even with me...you and with anyone....
Don't shy and let discuss it and share it....and treat it.....and its treatment only discussion and psychological treatment.
We have to open our thinking level and make the people more comfortable ..so that we can enjoy and live normal life....
I know its endless discussion but in this blog i just wanna aware and wanna give new beginning !!
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Bad and Good Day game
Today is very Bad day for me.....I don't knw yaar whenever i would try to achieve my dream its always seize from my hand and every time i make up my mind , Its part of life and time problem.But today i am feeling very much low and thinking how long it would take ?? Every time i have to face the same failure again and again ??
You know , every day is combination of Bad and Good both.Its depends on our expectation.Today i got to know i m not getting release from my account its good for my manager but its very bad day for me .....i am fighting and trying very hard for On site ...and here in TCS i am doing fucking job of contractor!!
But I know one i'll achieve it and win the race , but i don't know when that day would come and when i'll feel my success???may be after sometime , success lost its taste and I wont enjoy it....and i don't wanna this kinda feelings with me.
I know if i would expect and think alot its gives me pain and make me down....but i am human and have some ambitious how can i stop thinking ???
BAD day GOOD day game is just like that...god always play such kinda game with all and today he has played with me :))
Well I hope if its today a BAD day then tomorrow will be a GOOD day for me and i will celebrate my success and patience level !!
You know , every day is combination of Bad and Good both.Its depends on our expectation.Today i got to know i m not getting release from my account its good for my manager but its very bad day for me .....i am fighting and trying very hard for On site ...and here in TCS i am doing fucking job of contractor!!
But I know one i'll achieve it and win the race , but i don't know when that day would come and when i'll feel my success???may be after sometime , success lost its taste and I wont enjoy it....and i don't wanna this kinda feelings with me.
I know if i would expect and think alot its gives me pain and make me down....but i am human and have some ambitious how can i stop thinking ???
BAD day GOOD day game is just like that...god always play such kinda game with all and today he has played with me :))
Well I hope if its today a BAD day then tomorrow will be a GOOD day for me and i will celebrate my success and patience level !!
Sunday, April 10, 2011
Anger management
Hi,
I know guys,you r thinking how gal like me suggest to control Anger and Some guys must me thinking , she is just doing cut copy paste her view :))).Well here , this time i am just sharing my experience and trying to help you guys..
Always remember one thing, others experience always give u beginning and small beginning gives u hope for 100% success.
Around 2 years back i was bit stubborn and somehow little bit arrogant gal.I had negative opinion and always believe why always with me. I know some guys are shocked how Alpa ??
I believe, this is only in your hand to make yourself !! Some bad experiences made me very much strong and gimme ample time to change my inner self. and some how i believe this always happened with time and experience and little homework.
Here i am defining homework,Homework is nothing its your efforts.
1. Anger biggest reason: Expectations!!
First low down your expectations.Don't focus on output or results, just do it and forget it.
when i expected from my friends and family ....then it gave me pain and sadness only.
If you wont expect , then no cause and effect will low down you....and anger would automatically control.
2. Actions: Pls remove your laziness and so much thinking attitude.
If you would do action, then all your negative energy would come out and filter your body....you know what action makes your body lighter and give you strength to fight.
If you think the same thing again and again it gives many negative thoughts...kabhi kabhi voh soch loge joh impossible hai!! pls take action and just do it
3. Mediation and Work out:
Its medical treatment. Work out and meditation always give Peace of mind.
4. Explore your Hobbies:
do something related to your hobbies in daily routine , its always help you to make you happy :).
I hope next time you would share ur experience :)
I know guys,you r thinking how gal like me suggest to control Anger and Some guys must me thinking , she is just doing cut copy paste her view :))).Well here , this time i am just sharing my experience and trying to help you guys..
Always remember one thing, others experience always give u beginning and small beginning gives u hope for 100% success.
Around 2 years back i was bit stubborn and somehow little bit arrogant gal.I had negative opinion and always believe why always with me. I know some guys are shocked how Alpa ??
I believe, this is only in your hand to make yourself !! Some bad experiences made me very much strong and gimme ample time to change my inner self. and some how i believe this always happened with time and experience and little homework.
Here i am defining homework,Homework is nothing its your efforts.
1. Anger biggest reason: Expectations!!
First low down your expectations.Don't focus on output or results, just do it and forget it.
when i expected from my friends and family ....then it gave me pain and sadness only.
If you wont expect , then no cause and effect will low down you....and anger would automatically control.
2. Actions: Pls remove your laziness and so much thinking attitude.
If you would do action, then all your negative energy would come out and filter your body....you know what action makes your body lighter and give you strength to fight.
If you think the same thing again and again it gives many negative thoughts...kabhi kabhi voh soch loge joh impossible hai!! pls take action and just do it
3. Mediation and Work out:
Its medical treatment. Work out and meditation always give Peace of mind.
4. Explore your Hobbies:
do something related to your hobbies in daily routine , its always help you to make you happy :).
I hope next time you would share ur experience :)
Saturday, April 9, 2011
Pain and Experience in Fidelity :)
Hello Freinds,
As you know me ..I am not IT girl...but blessing of God and Hope of Gill gate made me to enter into this field!!
Jab Jab IT ka Majak banaya jayega wahan Alpa Chadha ka naam sabse pahele aayega...
dekho aa gaya na - FONT COLOR IS Golden ;)
Augst 2010, I have joined one company as contractor thru TCS.
Well Interview went very good.....so kaam bhi too good mil gaya(Its my bad luck..i always give interview good aur kahete hain jis daal parr baitho usi ko kaato...)
So i have done mistake and suffered 7 months !!
But one thing i wanna tell you....In India quality of work cannot be good..because we Indian always ready to make IMPOSSIBLE to POSSIBLE
Means- To make best code to worst Code
In IT company Management is just like Indian Government.Ek baar manager Kursi parr baith gaya sala company dubo kar he jayega!!
Well its long long discussion.....
I am sharing few lines of my pain in fidelity......pls bear it....:)
aayi….. aayi...aaayi aaayi
Fidelity mein kaam karke shaamatt aayi….
Charon taraf chaai hai…..code freeze ki duhai…..
Jab kia code freeze …toh MM(mater of M*** sorry its her nick name but real name is Manisha Mukhi joh kabhi na huyi dukhi...aur na kabhi rakhegi kisi ko sukhi...) k pass bhagate bhagate bolte huye main aayi…..
Na bhai na bhai…….!!!
Nahin suni isney pukar….nahin samjha humara pyaar…
Aab feb release main hoga bahot chamatkaar….. kar denege yeh technology ka balatkaar!!
Hoga humara ISA iska shikaar…..
Fidelity main kaam karke shaamat aayi….
Yeh baat join karne k baad samaj main aayi….
My dear frds now u can feel my pain…my mind has gone completely!!
As you know me ..I am not IT girl...but blessing of God and Hope of Gill gate made me to enter into this field!!
Jab Jab IT ka Majak banaya jayega wahan Alpa Chadha ka naam sabse pahele aayega...
dekho aa gaya na - FONT COLOR IS Golden ;)
Augst 2010, I have joined one company as contractor thru TCS.
Well Interview went very good.....so kaam bhi too good mil gaya(Its my bad luck..i always give interview good aur kahete hain jis daal parr baitho usi ko kaato...)
So i have done mistake and suffered 7 months !!
But one thing i wanna tell you....In India quality of work cannot be good..because we Indian always ready to make IMPOSSIBLE to POSSIBLE
Means- To make best code to worst Code
In IT company Management is just like Indian Government.Ek baar manager Kursi parr baith gaya sala company dubo kar he jayega!!
Well its long long discussion.....
I am sharing few lines of my pain in fidelity......pls bear it....:)
aayi….. aayi...aaayi aaayi
Fidelity mein kaam karke shaamatt aayi….
Charon taraf chaai hai…..code freeze ki duhai…..
Jab kia code freeze …toh MM(mater of M*** sorry its her nick name but real name is Manisha Mukhi joh kabhi na huyi dukhi...aur na kabhi rakhegi kisi ko sukhi...) k pass bhagate bhagate bolte huye main aayi…..
Na bhai na bhai…….!!!
Nahin suni isney pukar….nahin samjha humara pyaar…
Aab feb release main hoga bahot chamatkaar….. kar denege yeh technology ka balatkaar!!
Hoga humara ISA iska shikaar…..
Fidelity main kaam karke shaamat aayi….
Yeh baat join karne k baad samaj main aayi….
My dear frds now u can feel my pain…my mind has gone completely!!
Best Opportunity for IT guys!!
Hi Friends,
Golden Opportunity for you guys!!
One Company Name CTS hiring Fresher's and Experience Guys from IT Field.
Environment: Homely..feel you are in Kitchen
Salary: Depend on Mood , Weather and Area
CMM Level: No level…Level is all about mind game….
Domain/Technology: Will remain same …very Stable…aaj bhi kal aur humesha same he rahegi and forever!!
Experience: doesn't matter…
Onsite: everyday is onsite for you :)) No tension…
(No maara maari iska exp tumhe World ghumaayega)
Health problem: No ….never….its good for you..5*8 hrs(Week) Regular Exercise , so no tension….
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Any other question in mind- FEEL FREE TO ASK!! We are here for you :)))….
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Ya ya ya …I knw one question in mind……
Company what is CTS full name and Location…
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Chadha Tea Stall
Golden Opportunity for you guys!!
One Company Name CTS hiring Fresher's and Experience Guys from IT Field.
Environment: Homely..feel you are in Kitchen
Salary: Depend on Mood , Weather and Area
CMM Level: No level…Level is all about mind game….
Domain/Technology: Will remain same …very Stable…aaj bhi kal aur humesha same he rahegi and forever!!
Experience: doesn't matter…
Onsite: everyday is onsite for you :)) No tension…
(No maara maari iska exp tumhe World ghumaayega)
Health problem: No ….never….its good for you..5*8 hrs(Week) Regular Exercise , so no tension….
.
,
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
Any other question in mind- FEEL FREE TO ASK!! We are here for you :)))….
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Ya ya ya …I knw one question in mind……
Company what is CTS full name and Location…
Scroll Down..
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Chadha Tea Stall
Appraisal lesson for you guys
Hello frds…
I knw my dear friends now a days you are very much frustrated and waiting & expecting best from your so call Manager…..
But don’t worry its vidhi ka vidhaan hai
" joh kara hai uska phaal kabhi nahin paaya hai aur joh aaya hai voh sab moh maaya hai….!!"
Let me tell you one story, Hope next time you would be more happy and satisfied :))
There was once a washer man who had a donkey and a dog.
One night when the whole world was sleeping, a thief broke into the house, the washer man was fast asleep but the donkey and the dog were awake.
The dog decided not to bark since the master did not take good care of him and wanted to teach him a lesson.
The donkey got worried and said to the dog that if he doesn't bark, the donkey will have to do something himself. The dog did not change his mind and the donkey started braying loudly.
Hearing the donkey bray, the thief ran away, the master woke up and started beating the donkey for braying in the middle of the night for no reason.
Moral of the story "One must not engage in duties other than his own"
Now take a new look at the same story…
The washer man was a well educated man from a premier management institute.
He had the fundas of looking at the bigger picture and thinking out of the box. He was convinced that there must be some reason for the donkey to bray in the night.
He walked outside a little and did some fact finding, applied a bottom up approach, figured out from the ground realities that there was a thief who broke in and the donkey only wanted to alert him about it.
Looking at the donkey's extra initiative and going beyond the call of the duty, he rewarded him with lot of hay and other perks and became his favorite pet.
The dog's life didn't change much, except that now the donkey was more motivated in doing the dogs duties as well. In the annual appraisal the dog managed a " meets requirement" Soon the dog realized that the donkey is taking care of his duties and he can enjoy his life sleeping and lazing around.
The donkey was rated as "star performer". The donkey had to live up to his already high performance standards. Soon he was over burdened with work and always under pressure and now is looking for a job rotation…
If you have worked in a corporate environment, I am sure you have guessed the characters of the new story.
In short: " aapana kaam matt karna…..aapana kaam matt karna……
manager aur TL kuch bhi kahenge……..in HK(u knw full form ) se kabhi na darna…..
Joh darr gaya samjho marr gaya - joh darr gaya samjho gadha ban gaya…..
IT ne banaya humain kutta …..karo dusaron se kaam nikalva kar apna hisaab chutta !! "
All the best!!
I knw my dear friends now a days you are very much frustrated and waiting & expecting best from your so call Manager…..
But don’t worry its vidhi ka vidhaan hai
" joh kara hai uska phaal kabhi nahin paaya hai aur joh aaya hai voh sab moh maaya hai….!!"
Let me tell you one story, Hope next time you would be more happy and satisfied :))
There was once a washer man who had a donkey and a dog.
One night when the whole world was sleeping, a thief broke into the house, the washer man was fast asleep but the donkey and the dog were awake.
The dog decided not to bark since the master did not take good care of him and wanted to teach him a lesson.
The donkey got worried and said to the dog that if he doesn't bark, the donkey will have to do something himself. The dog did not change his mind and the donkey started braying loudly.
Hearing the donkey bray, the thief ran away, the master woke up and started beating the donkey for braying in the middle of the night for no reason.
Moral of the story "One must not engage in duties other than his own"
Now take a new look at the same story…
The washer man was a well educated man from a premier management institute.
He had the fundas of looking at the bigger picture and thinking out of the box. He was convinced that there must be some reason for the donkey to bray in the night.
He walked outside a little and did some fact finding, applied a bottom up approach, figured out from the ground realities that there was a thief who broke in and the donkey only wanted to alert him about it.
Looking at the donkey's extra initiative and going beyond the call of the duty, he rewarded him with lot of hay and other perks and became his favorite pet.
The dog's life didn't change much, except that now the donkey was more motivated in doing the dogs duties as well. In the annual appraisal the dog managed a " meets requirement" Soon the dog realized that the donkey is taking care of his duties and he can enjoy his life sleeping and lazing around.
The donkey was rated as "star performer". The donkey had to live up to his already high performance standards. Soon he was over burdened with work and always under pressure and now is looking for a job rotation…
If you have worked in a corporate environment, I am sure you have guessed the characters of the new story.
In short: " aapana kaam matt karna…..aapana kaam matt karna……
manager aur TL kuch bhi kahenge……..in HK(u knw full form ) se kabhi na darna…..
Joh darr gaya samjho marr gaya - joh darr gaya samjho gadha ban gaya…..
IT ne banaya humain kutta …..karo dusaron se kaam nikalva kar apna hisaab chutta !! "
All the best!!
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